Pre-Date Compatibility Form

Compatibility Questionnaire and Profile Review/Challenge

Did you know that at least 75% of the people on dating sites are “time wasters?” They’re not ready for a real relationship, aren’t really single, are only concerned about their needs, hide behind old pictures, or have no clue about what makes a compatible relationship work.

Is his or her profile accurate? Are you two compatible? Find out with this short questionnaire. It’s FREE!

Save valuable time and avoid having to ask the crucial yet potentially difficult questions. Share this questionnaire with any potential dates before you spend time chatting on-line, e-mailing, texting, talking by phone, or meeting.

Fill out the form below and send the results to your potential date.
You must enter a first name and email and the same for your potential date at the very end of the questionnaire. We do not save or share these emails or put you on any lists from this form.

If your potential date fails to send back to you their results, you may have just weeded out a time-waster!

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1) Age (check all that apply):

Age isn’t important to me
The age listed in my profile is my real age
The age listed in my profile is older than my real age
The age listed in my profile is a few years younger than my real age and I inform my potential dates of this during the initial contact
The age listed in my profile is a few years younger than my real age
Sorry, I prefer not to disclose my real age, but I’m often told I look like the age listed in my profile and I’m confident you’ll think the same. If you don’t, I will…
A) Pay the bill for our date
B) Pay the bill for our date and pay you for your time and transportation costs
C) Other

Comments:

2) Profile stats, such as height, weight, build, body condition, etc. (check all that apply):

The stats of a potential match are not too important to me
My stats are all accurate
My stats are all accurate except forand the reason is
Not all of my stats are accurate, including
I’m confident my stats are accurate. If you believe they are not, I will…
A) Pay the bill for our date
B) Pay the bill for our date and pay you for your time and transportation costs
C) Other

Comments:

3) Profile pictures (check all that apply):

My profile pictures were all taken within the last 6 months and I look the same
My profile pictures were all taken within the last 12 months and I look the same
My profile pictures were all taken longer than 12 months ago and my looks have changed in the following ways:
I don’t look anything like my profile pictures
People I’ve met have said I look the same or better than my profile pictures
People I’ve met have said I don’t look like my profile pictures
I’m so confident that I look like my profile pictures that if you think I don’t I will…
A) Pay the bill for our date
B) Pay the bill for our date and pay you for your time and transportation costs
C) Other

Comments:

4) Video Cam:

I’m willing to have a video cam chat with you to verify my pictures and stats because I have nothing to hide
I’m willing to have a video cam chat with you, as long as we both remain clothed, to verify my pictures and stats because I have nothing to hide

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5) Single? (Check all that apply)

I’m single and not dating anyone at the moment
I’m single and dating but not involved with anyone seriously
I’m involved with someone else and they don’t know I’m looking elsewhere
I’m involved with someone else and they know I’m looking elsewhere
I’m living with someone and they don’t know I’m looking elsewhere
I’m living with someone and they know I’m looking elsewhere
I’m still involved with my ex in the following ways:
I’m married
I’m legally separated, but not yet divorced
Other

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6) Kids (check all that apply):

I don’t have any kids
I don’t want kids
I havekids and kids living with me
I’m able to financially support my kids on my own
I’m able to financially support my kids with help
My kids are grown and not living with me
I don’t have kids but would like them within years
I have kids and would like more within years

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7) Finances (check all that apply):

I don’t need to work
I’m retired
I work, I’m self-supportive, not looking for financial help, and that’s all you need to know right now
I work, I’m self-supportive, not a gold-digger, but who wouldn’t want some help if things worked out that way
I don’t work and rely on others for financial support
I’m not rich but I’m self-supportive, career motivated, and have big plans for my future
I’m financially well-off and don’t mind sharing while dating
I’m financially well-off and don’t mind sharing while involved with a compatible partner
I’m only interested in potential matches who are self-supportive and not looking for financial support
Other:

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8. Relationship Outlook (check all that apply):

I’m interested in fulfilling my romantic fantasies and want the ideal love life
I used to strive to fulfill my romantic fantasies and create an ideal love life, but I’m more realistic now
I believe everyone has only one soul mate
I believe everyone has many soul mates or partner possibilities
I don’t believe in soul mates
Marriage isn’t always a good idea for every compatible couple
I believe most or all relationships have destined beginning and ending times
I believe most or all relationships should last a lifetime
Let’s face it, most couples are not compatible enough for a traditional, long-term relationship. Let’s just date, have fun, and enjoy each other’s company with no expectations.

Comments:

9) My Love Life Agenda (check all that apply):

I don’t really have a love life agenda; I know what I like but am going with the flow
My love life agenda or plan is as follows:

Comments:

10) Sex (choose one number for each statement below from 1-9; Strongly agree 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 Strongly disagree):

123456789 I don’t believe you have to be married to enjoy good sex
123456789 I have a very high sex drive most of the time
123456789 I like sex often, but only with the right person
123456789 Good sex is an important part of a relationship
123456789 The sexual chemistry is either there or it’s not between two people
123456789 I need to feel an attraction from a lover in order to enjoy sex
123456789 Sex is not love, love is not sex, but love can be expressed through sex, and it’s okay to have sex just for the fun of it
123456789 Commitment and monogamy are two separate things
123456789 The expectation of strict, long-term monogamy is not always appropriate, realistic, or fair
123456789 It’s condoms/safe-sex or nothing when I’m not involved in a monogamous relationship
123456789 Good sex is pleasing each other and mutual orgasms

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11) Independence (check all that apply):

I don’t like being alone
I always feel uplifted in the presence of others and like to be around other people as much as possible.
When I’m involved with someone, I prefer to be together all the time
I enjoy my alone time
Solitude allows me to recharge and I feel energized by it
When I’m involved with someone, I prefer some alone time
I hate being single
I’m content with my life and don’t mind being single

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12) Previous dating experience (check all that apply):

A moderate amount
A lot
Little
I’m newly single and haven’t dated for a long time
People I’ve dated wanted me to change the following about myself:
Some/many people I’ve dated did the following that turned me off or ended the relationship:

Comments:

13) Is there anything else you’d like your potential date to know about you or your life before meeting?

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Now, send this to yourself and a friend/potential date, but make sure to get their permission before doing so.
We do not save or share this information or these emails.

Your first name:
Your profile name:
Dating site name:
Your e-mail address:
Confirm e-mail address:

 

Friend’s/potential date’s first name:
Friend’s/potential date’s email:
Confirm friend’s/potential date’s email:

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